Karie - I am no stallion handler extraordinaire by any means, but you sure learn what makes each one of them tick in a big hurry!
One of them, who shall remain nameless, was a real enigma to figure out. He had only covered one mare in his life when I got him, and the first mare we tried to cover with him, he was very shy and very reserved with, and it took maybe 15 or 20 minutes before he would even approach her even though she was in full blown heat and squatting and peeing up a storm if he even looked her way, so she was beyond being a good girl about it ... After we convinced him that all wa sokay, he did cover her.
Two days later she was still in, so brought her out again, brought the stallion out again and she was again very receptive, but this time, from about 20 feet out, he charged her with his ears pinned flat back and dove at her with his feet and teeth and wheeled around and tried to double barrel her with both hind feet to boot. He totally surprised me and almost sent me flying into the air. I nailed him hard and made him back up and we did get the job done as well ...
3 days later, different mare, just as receptive, and I had NO idea if I was going to be dealing with a shy and hesitant breeder or a charging one but at least this time I was ready for him. He did the same thing - pinned his ears and charged from about 20 feet out and I nailed him as hard as I have ever nailed a horse in my life. He ran backwards about 30 or 40 feet with my whaling on him and telling him "BACK!!!", I flipped him over on the grass and I nailed him while he was on the ground as well and from that point on, all I had to do was raise my voice and say "whoa" or back" and he knew EXACTLY what that meant and what would happen next if he didnt do so. He was always very light in the back end though and would spin to the right and try to kick out at the mare so it was tough to try and control his right shoulder and side when I was on his left side, but knowing what he would do at least would prepare you
I found with him that he was very insecure about a lot of things and he almost wanted to have the upper hand and hurt the mare before she had a chance to hurt him or some bizarre rationale that only he understood ???
He never did charge again after those first few times. I think he understood his parameters and thankfully never tested them again
Its tough Karie - I really sympathize with you ...
GG is strong and enthusiastic but always controllable and has never charged a mare with us and I find with him - he is so frigging sensitive, its a fine line between laying down the rules and hurting his feelings
As far as equipment - a few suggestions to think about and maybe try:
The A.D.D. halter:
http://www.tackinthebox.com/stablewares ... 81_200.htm
The Dually halter:
http://www.montyroberts.com/shop_tack_training.html
Control halter:
http://www.horse.com/products/gift-0__sku-BMH08.html
and this one looks kind of neat as well:
http://www.horse.com/products/gift-0__sku-BMH09.html
Good luck Karie - I hope between the lot of us we can help you out!
Donna