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Postby Bondama » Mon Nov 06, 2006 3:38 pm

Diplomatic Pleasure slipped her foal sometime in the night. I found it already cold when I went out to feed at 5:30. It was still completely encased in its sac and attached to placenta. Mom was munching hay like it wasn't even there. I still tried to revive it, like an idiot, but the vet said it never even took a breath, so at least did not suffer. She was 2-4 weeks early, and had not even bagged up. No signs last night at feeding time - everything was "normal".

It was a filly, kind of smutty buckskin with 2 high whites on both back legs and a huge white star, like Mom's. A little small due to prematurity, but otherwise normal.

Vet's diagnosis was "placentitis" as the placenta was enlarged....was, in fact, the largest she said she'd ever seen. She palpated and found that everything inside Mom was fine, nothing left over, no retained twin, uterus shrinking perfectly, etc. Gave her some banamine and oxytocin, and recommended not to breed her back on foal heat, but to wait a couple of months just to watch her. I was going to let her skip a year anyway, so that's fine.

Sigh. My heart is broken. My first mare, my first baby. It's been a lousy 2006. :( :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Sorry for your loss

Postby tammysinnett » Mon Nov 06, 2006 4:35 pm

sorry for your loss. :cry:

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Postby Roguelet » Mon Nov 06, 2006 5:01 pm

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss... this is one of the hardest parts of being in this business.
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Postby henthorn » Mon Nov 06, 2006 8:57 pm

Sorry to hear it, Bondama. Just lets the air out of you, doesn't it? It happens to the best of them. Hope your other mares are uncomplicated this year. :( :?
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Postby clh » Tue Nov 07, 2006 8:33 am

So sorry :cry: Been there and done that and it is a terrible feeling! We have mares that have had the same thing and there really has not been any clue for us either. Just happens. We did put the mares on meds for future pregnancies and that seemed to work but it sure doesn't help finding the little ones out in the field or in the stall. Keep your chin up - better days are ahead!
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Postby henthorn » Tue Nov 07, 2006 9:16 am

Be thankful your mare is well and expected to recover fully. This battle is over, but the war is not lost. It brings back sad memories--lost two premies in the past two years; naturally they were the ones I was most looking forward to. :cry:
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Postby Bondama » Tue Nov 07, 2006 9:23 am

Thank you for your kind words. I did a little research on this condition and am encouraged that it is usually an isolated circumstance vs. something ongoing, and that direct causes are still mostly unknown and have no predictability.

It just hurts so bad. She was an absolutely gorgeous baby. But, as henthorn says, I'm most thankful momma is fine and on the rebound. It could have been worse.

Thank you again for commiserating!!
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Postby Arctic Cielo » Tue Nov 07, 2006 1:23 pm

Bondama, So sorry to hear that :cry:
The first year always seems the hardest. Thankfully your mare is ok.

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Postby Thunder » Tue Nov 07, 2006 2:31 pm

:cry: Let time heal your wounds (mare also).

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Postby Barbaro06 » Tue Nov 07, 2006 3:21 pm

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Give yourself and your mare time to heal and there will be many good times ahead!

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Postby nferro9925 » Wed Nov 08, 2006 9:08 am

Bondama - I am sorry to hear of your loss. :(
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Postby Mood Swings » Wed Nov 22, 2006 4:41 pm

Bondama, I'm so sorry for your loss :( It is very hard to lose a foal no matter the circumstance :( I am glad your mare is okay and I hope you will not be discouraged.

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Postby BenB » Fri Nov 24, 2006 11:43 am

Iam very sorry for your loss and can,t find any words for it.